How… can you give up ‘should and shouldn’t,’ today? It’s a good thing!

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Weekly Question:  How can you give up ‘should and shouldn’t,’ today?

Weekly Intention: Acceptance

Daily Affirmation: I accept it.


“Stop ‘shoulding’ all over yourself.”
– James Feldman

This week’s question is “How… can you give up ‘should and shouldn’t,’ today?

So, let’s start by defining ‘should…’


1. Used to indicate obligation, or ‘correct behavior.’

Ex: He should be more considerate. Translation…’he isn’t very considerate.

Let’s continue with defining ‘shouldn’t…’


1.  Should not. Used to indicate obligation, or ‘correct behavior.’

Ex: She shouldn’t be upset. Translation…’she is upset.’

How… can you ‘give up should and shouldn’t,’ today?

  • Give up saying ‘should and shouldn’t…’
  • Simply notice it…
    *Notice when you say “I should… or I shouldn’t…”
    *Replace it with “I want…” or “I don’t want…” and accept it.
  • Notice when you say, “He should… or she shouldn’t…”
    *Replace it with “He… or she…” and accept it.
    *Smile, take a deep breath and ask yourself, “What now…?”
  • Notice if you’re saying, “I shouldn’t say should…!” 
    *Accept it.
    *Transform it. It’s a process…
    *Remember, you’re human and you’re programmed!
  • Read Loving what is… by Byron Katie

Ask yourself, “How can I ‘give up should and shouldn’t,’ today?”
Then live from the question and see what unfolds…

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The Yoga Book is a personal yoga diary! It is a book for your thoughts and experiences, after a yoga class. Do you have a favorite posture? Sketch it! Do you have a favorite class or instructor? Take notes! Do you have a creative idea? Write it down! Use it to determine your favorite style of yoga or enhance your practice. The Yoga Book is also perfect for teacher trainings and yoga workshops! Every page has an inspirational quote, space for the date, style of yoga, and instructor’s name. It also has a glossary of classic yogas. Enjoy!

“The idea for The Yoga Book came to me in a yoga class! I saw it clearly in my mind and I needed somewhere to write it down. Also, I had recently met with an Indian medical doctor, who had said “Different styles of yoga effect people differently, so it is important to know which ‘style of yoga’ is right for you.” So, I decided to create a book, where people could journal about their experiences in a yoga class, write about the different postures – how they felt, get inspired, and write about their insights… Sometimes I would come to class with a problem, any problem, and leave with a solution! And when I did, I’d write it down somewhere, so I decided to create The Yoga Book.” 

– Creator of The Yoga Book

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